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Tuesday, August 14, 2007

Day 6- Nanning


I have no idea where to begin!!! This city is so beautiful but I feel like I'm walking around soaked all day. I cannot believe the humidity. It is so tropical here, more than Hawaii.

Our day started out with Tao Tao (Channing) walking up at 6am. All she did was get out of our bed, went and put her shoes on then jumped into the other bed. We slept for another hour then she was up. She woke up happy, which was good. But about a hour later she had a meltdown, which lasted A LONG TIME!!! Today was Adoption Day which meant we needed to go back to the Civil Affairs office to finalize the adoption. I had 2 interviews with a kid screaming....not fun!! But the Government Officials are great.....they just asked me to be patient with her and she will come around. I love the one question they asked "are you satisfied with this child"....too funny!!!
So Channing is officially my daughter now!!!!

After we were done there we went to Walmart so we could by Channing some new shoes and clothes. She wants nothing to do with the ones I brought so I thought maybe if she picked them out she would wear them. We first went to the shoe department and she picked out some PINK ones, then we went over to the clothes department and she picked out ALL PINK and of course they had to have shiny things or lace on them. This child is a PINK girl and a girly girl!!!!

We went to Pizza Hut for lunch with our guide David. He is wonderful with Channing. When we are with David, Channing wants to be with him. He will make his hands full so he cant carry her...he tells her to be with Mama and to come to me. Channing wants to be around Chinese people, which is understandable. She ate her pizza like a champ. She is so funny. She ate with a fork and knife, cut her pizza and ate with the best table manners. She didnt spill a drop and ate every crumb.

We joined a family from the US at the pool this afternoon. Channing only wanted her pants off and didnt want to put her bathing suit all the way on. So we went down to the pool. The girls were all swimming and Channing watched from her stroller for about 10 minutes. We got Kaileigh (who is 10 & Chinese) to come and take her out. Channing let her take her out, put her swimsuit all the way on and took her into the pool. She had a blast.....until it was time to come back to the room. Then another melt down came. What a temper tantrum. She was stomping her feet, kicking the wall......I just let her be and soon she stopped. She grabbed her bag of hair pretties, sat infront of the mirror and did her hair. She put ponies in, barrettes and would look at herself at different angles.....I couldnt believe it!!

We went again for another big walk.......she loves to be outside and now loves her stroller. I asked her if she wanted supper and she said NO. So I took her to the restaurant and got the server to ask her in Chinese what she wanted to eat. So Channing told her noodle and a pear. I had them deliver room service to the room. She ate some.....both with a fork and chopsticks. The ladies in the restaurant are wonderful. They come and talk to Channing and can calm her down, they can get her to eat and they also translate for me. Channing still says lots that she wants to go home and to school. She will talk to me really fast in Chinese and say "Mama". I had a good talk with Yulin my agency director tonight for about 1 hour on the phone and she says Channing is doing just fine and that all her behavior issues is normal.....heck it has only been 1 day. She even talked to Channing on the phone for about 5 minutes too.......I love hearing Channing talk.

Sooo....we are slowly making progress. At least Channing will sneak out a smile every now and then. She HATES coming into the hotel, so we will need to do something about that. My camera sucks here. The humidity is so bad, you can see what it does to pictures outside.
Hope everyone is well......and thanks for all the support!!!!

PRIVATE MESSAGE FOR HUNTER: You are going to have so much fun with Channing. She is so funny!!! She calls Papa "Gong Gong" and Grandma "PoPo"....she really like Gong Gong too!!!
She may be very shy at first since she doesnt like strangers and gets scared. I also heard she doesnt like animals today and especially doesnt like dogs, but I dont believe it....so we will see what she does when she sees Saige. Anyways.....I miss you and Brogan!!! See you next week!!!

posted by Tao's Mommy at 8/14/2007 07:36:00 AM

24 Comments:

Blogger RoLo said...

Each day will get a little easier my friend, I know that I havent been through this so it is easy for me to say, but each day Channing will get to know you a little bit more and I am sure she can already feel all your love. Your paitence and understanding is showing her that you are there for her. I am keeping both of you in my thoughts and prayers.

I loved your post about Channing shopping for all pink girly items and the photos of her doing her hair. She is just going to love her room and all the girly goodies you have for her.

It is nice to read that everyone around you is supportive and helpful even if they are not a part of your official group e.g the hotel staff and restaurant people and I am sure it is a huge help having Yulin even if she is not there physically to chat with you and Channing.

Big hugs for you and Channing.

August 14, 2007 8:41 AM  
Blogger Drea said...

Kim! Hang in there, she will definitely come around! IT must be hard with the language difference, but you guys will be great! By the time you come home it will be a completely different story! The humidity is tough, it kind of takes your energy doesn't it! I can't wait to see how things go for the rest of the trip!

August 14, 2007 8:45 AM  
Blogger Norma said...

So where are the pics of Channing with MOMMY???!!! I'm glad things are going well and getting better. "Are you satisfied with this child?" Silly question!!

August 14, 2007 8:59 AM  
Blogger Jodi @ blog-o-licious said...

to me, it sounds like channing is a typical 3 year old - i remember my kids having those kinds of melt downs - and you are right, the best thing is to just "let her be".

Yay! Channing is yours!

August 14, 2007 9:07 AM  
Blogger Catherine said...

She's doing so well. I can't imagine how hard this is on her but mommy...you're doing a GREAT job! Letting her choose some new clothes was a great idea! Even at 3 they know what they want so this was something really neat that you did for her to help with the transition.

Tao Tao is a beautiful little girl and you're an AWESOME mommy! Hope you're able to capture some of her talking on video while she's in China. What a treasure that will be to have in the future.

(((hugs))) friend! You're doing GREAT!!!

August 14, 2007 9:45 AM  
Blogger 4D said...

Tao Tao is so pretty. She is taking it all in. I am sure it is hard but you are an amazing woman and mom. Hugs to you!

Take it all in!

Keep smilin!

August 14, 2007 10:00 AM  
Blogger Middle-Aged Moi said...

Kim- Hang in there, she does sound like she is doing great, and from what I've seen of kids, her behaviour is perfectly normal. Give her lots of time, she will come to love and trust you. You are doing great and sound calm and ready to deal with whatever happens. And it has only been one day, she will get to know you. Keep it up, you are an inspiration!!!!

August 14, 2007 10:27 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi Kim
Have been following your journey and have been very excited seeing your pictures.

Channing (Tao Tao) is a beautiful girl and she has gone through the worst and soon will get used to all of you. What a girl!

Keep up the great work! Hi to your Dad and Mom. What a wonderful holiday!

Love, Aunt Eileen

August 14, 2007 10:32 AM  
Blogger Elise said...

Can't believe I missed Gotcha Day...but loved seeing todays post! She is sooooo beautiful! Congratulations!

August 14, 2007 11:13 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

What a great post. Thank you so much for sharing. It definitely isn't all sunshine and lollipops. It sounds like you are doing well under the pressure. It is great that you have other hands to help out so that you can get a little space too. I can't wait to read the post at then end of you time in China and compare it to now. So much will change. It is truly amazing.

Best Wishes!!!!

August 14, 2007 12:26 PM  
Blogger Eliza2006 said...

You are doing a great job. This can't be an easy time for either of you. Just keep reminding yourself that 2 year olds are VERY opininionated even when their entire world has not been turned upside down. Hang in there and Congrats on being officially hers (and vice versa!)!!!

Tiffany

August 14, 2007 1:34 PM  
Blogger t~ said...

Oh Kim, she is doing very well considering her whole world has flipped. Just keep loving on her! Your doing a great job with her transition!

August 14, 2007 1:39 PM  
Blogger Lindsay Morhart said...

Kim and family,

Congratulations on the adoption of Channing! She looks like a beautiful little girl!

Brian, Lindsay and Charli Morhart

August 14, 2007 3:05 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

It looks like things are going well. Like you said, it's only the second day. Congratulations on becoming a mother!! You sound like a natural. Take care. -Dale

August 14, 2007 3:17 PM  
Blogger my3 kids said...

Hi Kim,

This is really tough on both of you. I know when we came home from China with Emma (and she was alot younger) she wanted nothing to do with her daddy...it did take some time but she did come around as I know Channing will. Hang in there Kim...your doing an awesome job and once Channing realizes you are forever she will start to accept you wholeheartedly and won't turn back. Sending you huge hugs....keep doing what your doing Mommy:)

August 14, 2007 3:18 PM  
Blogger Abby's Mom said...

Channing looks adorable! She seems like a very strong little girl too. You guys will work through this and she will be fine. Thanks for sharing your journey with us :)

August 14, 2007 4:14 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Kim, Thank you so much for the detailed descrition of your time with Channing! When I read about the hard time that she is having, I keep thinking of my Liam (same age as Channing) and how he would react if he were faced with a similar situation. I KNOW that he would cry and have tantrums - so Yulin is right, all of this is normal, and you are doing a fabulous job! You sound so calm, relaxed and happy! Soon Channing will adjust and you will be the centre of her life! I am so thrilled for you! Amy

August 14, 2007 4:32 PM  
Blogger Kristine said...

Wow Kim, your are an incredible Mom - letting her grieve and act out as she needs to. Love the description of the hair pretties, Channing sounds like such a sweetie. Glad that your Mom and Dad are there for you, they must be such great support for both you and Channing!!

August 14, 2007 10:56 PM  
Blogger Joce and sometimes Shawn said...

Kim, I woke up in the middle of the night thinking of you. I don't know I didn't think of this before. When Fenway is having a huge melt down, which will happen from time to time, we whisper to her. She seems to calm down quicker than trying to speak in a normal voice to calm her down.

Get your guide to teach you a few soothing phrases, like, I love you or it will be okay, in Chinese and repeat them to Channing when she is having a tantrum. Use both Chinese and English.

Try to hold her or lie next to her on a bed. Fenway has body throwing tantrums and wants to be held but throws her body around while screamming.

August 15, 2007 6:27 AM  
Blogger Somewhere In The Sun said...

I'm really enjoying reading about your journey! Channing sounds like an amazing little girl!

August 15, 2007 6:47 AM  
Blogger jennifer said...

She is precious. Congratulations!

August 15, 2007 8:11 AM  
Blogger Elizabeth said...

Wow. Well having a 3 year old at home, these tantrums are very normal, but going through her huge life change now, I guess they can be even moe expected. She is a smart cookie and love that she does her own hair and chats away. She is precious.

August 15, 2007 8:43 AM  
Blogger Sam said...

I had to check out your blog and I must say "Channing" is a beautiful little girl. Hang in there - she will come around. I can't beleive she does her own hair WOW!!
Sherri

August 15, 2007 9:17 AM  
Blogger M and M said...

Thanks for all the pictures!!

Things sound like you have a typical child with tantrum on your hands! Life couldn't be more perfect!!

August 15, 2007 4:58 PM  

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