posted by Tao's Mommy at 8/14/2007 07:36:00 AM
Each day will get a little easier my friend, I know that I havent been through this so it is easy for me to say, but each day Channing will get to know you a little bit more and I am sure she can already feel all your love. Your paitence and understanding is showing her that you are there for her. I am keeping both of you in my thoughts and prayers. I loved your post about Channing shopping for all pink girly items and the photos of her doing her hair. She is just going to love her room and all the girly goodies you have for her. It is nice to read that everyone around you is supportive and helpful even if they are not a part of your official group e.g the hotel staff and restaurant people and I am sure it is a huge help having Yulin even if she is not there physically to chat with you and Channing. Big hugs for you and Channing.
Kim! Hang in there, she will definitely come around! IT must be hard with the language difference, but you guys will be great! By the time you come home it will be a completely different story! The humidity is tough, it kind of takes your energy doesn't it! I can't wait to see how things go for the rest of the trip!
So where are the pics of Channing with MOMMY???!!! I'm glad things are going well and getting better. "Are you satisfied with this child?" Silly question!!
to me, it sounds like channing is a typical 3 year old - i remember my kids having those kinds of melt downs - and you are right, the best thing is to just "let her be".Yay! Channing is yours!
She's doing so well. I can't imagine how hard this is on her but mommy...you're doing a GREAT job! Letting her choose some new clothes was a great idea! Even at 3 they know what they want so this was something really neat that you did for her to help with the transition. Tao Tao is a beautiful little girl and you're an AWESOME mommy! Hope you're able to capture some of her talking on video while she's in China. What a treasure that will be to have in the future.(((hugs))) friend! You're doing GREAT!!!
Tao Tao is so pretty. She is taking it all in. I am sure it is hard but you are an amazing woman and mom. Hugs to you!Take it all in!Keep smilin!
Kim- Hang in there, she does sound like she is doing great, and from what I've seen of kids, her behaviour is perfectly normal. Give her lots of time, she will come to love and trust you. You are doing great and sound calm and ready to deal with whatever happens. And it has only been one day, she will get to know you. Keep it up, you are an inspiration!!!!
Hi KimHave been following your journey and have been very excited seeing your pictures.Channing (Tao Tao) is a beautiful girl and she has gone through the worst and soon will get used to all of you. What a girl! Keep up the great work! Hi to your Dad and Mom. What a wonderful holiday!Love, Aunt Eileen
Can't believe I missed Gotcha Day...but loved seeing todays post! She is sooooo beautiful! Congratulations!
What a great post. Thank you so much for sharing. It definitely isn't all sunshine and lollipops. It sounds like you are doing well under the pressure. It is great that you have other hands to help out so that you can get a little space too. I can't wait to read the post at then end of you time in China and compare it to now. So much will change. It is truly amazing. Best Wishes!!!!
You are doing a great job. This can't be an easy time for either of you. Just keep reminding yourself that 2 year olds are VERY opininionated even when their entire world has not been turned upside down. Hang in there and Congrats on being officially hers (and vice versa!)!!!Tiffany
Oh Kim, she is doing very well considering her whole world has flipped. Just keep loving on her! Your doing a great job with her transition!
Kim and family,Congratulations on the adoption of Channing! She looks like a beautiful little girl! Brian, Lindsay and Charli Morhart
It looks like things are going well. Like you said, it's only the second day. Congratulations on becoming a mother!! You sound like a natural. Take care. -Dale
Hi Kim,This is really tough on both of you. I know when we came home from China with Emma (and she was alot younger) she wanted nothing to do with her daddy...it did take some time but she did come around as I know Channing will. Hang in there Kim...your doing an awesome job and once Channing realizes you are forever she will start to accept you wholeheartedly and won't turn back. Sending you huge hugs....keep doing what your doing Mommy:)
Channing looks adorable! She seems like a very strong little girl too. You guys will work through this and she will be fine. Thanks for sharing your journey with us :)
Kim, Thank you so much for the detailed descrition of your time with Channing! When I read about the hard time that she is having, I keep thinking of my Liam (same age as Channing) and how he would react if he were faced with a similar situation. I KNOW that he would cry and have tantrums - so Yulin is right, all of this is normal, and you are doing a fabulous job! You sound so calm, relaxed and happy! Soon Channing will adjust and you will be the centre of her life! I am so thrilled for you! Amy
Wow Kim, your are an incredible Mom - letting her grieve and act out as she needs to. Love the description of the hair pretties, Channing sounds like such a sweetie. Glad that your Mom and Dad are there for you, they must be such great support for both you and Channing!!
Kim, I woke up in the middle of the night thinking of you. I don't know I didn't think of this before. When Fenway is having a huge melt down, which will happen from time to time, we whisper to her. She seems to calm down quicker than trying to speak in a normal voice to calm her down. Get your guide to teach you a few soothing phrases, like, I love you or it will be okay, in Chinese and repeat them to Channing when she is having a tantrum. Use both Chinese and English. Try to hold her or lie next to her on a bed. Fenway has body throwing tantrums and wants to be held but throws her body around while screamming.
I'm really enjoying reading about your journey! Channing sounds like an amazing little girl!
She is precious. Congratulations!
Wow. Well having a 3 year old at home, these tantrums are very normal, but going through her huge life change now, I guess they can be even moe expected. She is a smart cookie and love that she does her own hair and chats away. She is precious.
I had to check out your blog and I must say "Channing" is a beautiful little girl. Hang in there - she will come around. I can't beleive she does her own hair WOW!!Sherri
Thanks for all the pictures!! Things sound like you have a typical child with tantrum on your hands! Life couldn't be more perfect!!
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